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sick and tired

Started this discussion. Last reply by alabamagirl41 May 1, 2012. 13 Replies

are there any one in south alabama

Started this discussion. Last reply by rubberneckin Jan 9, 2008. 3 Replies

big girl + small town = no REAL man

Started this discussion. Last reply by Andrea L Jul 27, 2010. 45 Replies


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"i live in alabama.  its no good when it comes to night life in the town im in.  the guys here are like not happening at all.  the rent is good in the few places that's here.  to buy a place is good.  job wise is so so…"
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"i see no harm in it at all. like all the others on here have said if there is trust then there shouldnt be no problem."
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alabamagirl41 commented on Risa ~ Bésame Mucho's blog post Waking nightmares on the 4th of july
"the one thing u can do is tell everyone that u know what he did to u.   i know first hand how ppl will believe the one that hurt u and how ppl will look at u as the lier and how they think the abuser is an angel while they look at u as…"
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alabamagirl41 commented on LilMrs.CantBeWrong's blog post Sometimes....
"alot of the ppl in the south are like this.   ppl can be hatefull and they really dont care who they hurt.  i say be nice to ppl cause u might just need that person u hurt. "
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"this guy makes it harder for us girls to trust the real good guys."
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alabamagirl41 replied to jeff's discussion I Love Fat Girls (and I hope nobody knows)
"grow up.  grow a set of balls.  get a life.  btw if ur so ashame of having desires for us fat girls then u are in the wrong place.   ur the reason why its hard for me to find a real man that will not act like he is ashame of…"
Jun 24, 2012
alabamagirl41 replied to Vanessa's discussion First loves and moving on
"its been since 02 when my ex first love hurt me.  theres times i get pissed off bout how he lied about the important things and then i wonder why he did all those lies.  it does get better just give it time and u will meet a better…"
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"i tell the guy i dont give out my number to someone i dont know at all."
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alabamagirl41 replied to Ty's discussion A question for the ladies of the site
"i tell the guy i dont give out my number to someone i dont know at all."
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"i'm not black."
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"is this offer only on the summer line of bras or is it on all of the bars they have.   btw thanks for the heads up on the deal threw lane bryant.  :)"
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"thats just plain out right nasty. "
May 29, 2012
alabamagirl41 replied to Shay V's discussion Either I'm attractive or I'm not
"if im not good enough for them at this size then what makes them think if u loose weight u will be good enough for them then?  either u love me for me and all of me or nothing at all."
May 29, 2012

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my wants

Posted on November 2, 2010 at 2:40am 0 Comments

its been a while since i bloged. so here goes. this yr had alot of changes for me. my mom was put in the nursing home here in this town. my brother was killed by someone. i had my eyes done so that i can see again. yes i was legally blind but now i can see. now im wishing for a guy to be mine but in this town theres no real men that dont act like momma's boys. i dont like mommas boys. i want a grown ass man that can stand on his 2 feet and has a good job and dont no crap from any other…



Posted on May 27, 2010 at 11:22pm 0 Comments

update: my mom isnt here at the house now... shes in the nursing home full time.... she says shes coming home but she told them she was/is staying....with that being said, i asked my brother for some help on the bills, food, and her personal ideams and he refuses to help...he claims he has no money which is a lie....he has rental properties, works at a church and his wife did/does real estate, and now she's doing hair too...

when my grandmother pasted away from AML cancer they went to…


advice pls

Posted on December 20, 2009 at 1:29am 2 Comments

ever since i was little i have been hurt by this woman that calls herself a mother....i think all the hurt started after her divorce from my so call father who walked out on me.....first it started out as verbal then mental then emotional then to the hitting to putting a hand held ice pick in my face to putting a pillow over my face to fondling my privates.....

my mother would verbal, mental, emotional and she would hit me from time to time..

my brother would hit me, put an ice pick… Continue


Posted on December 30, 2008 at 12:07am 3 Comments

!. how do u make or get urself to feel when ur dead on the inside?

2. how can u make things clear to someone that has hurt u for yrs to stop hurting u now when ur trying to care for that person?

3. why do guys like/love to use girls like me?

4. how can some one like me thats on soc sec get another place of her own and have all or part of her bills paid for?

5. how can i make it clear to ppl that i need help when they wont help me out with my overly controlling overly jealous… Continue

if u can answer then pls do so

Posted on January 3, 2008 at 4:22am 1 Comment

if u can answer this question then pls do: why is it that when u have excepted urself for being a bigger person in size that ur family and or friends have not?????? i just dont get it.... my family has never exce[pted the fact that i am a fat person or a fat girl or a big girl in size... they all want to change me and for what they see that i should be when i dont want to change my size.... i like who i am and they cant stand it...... why??? why cant they just except me for me... its…


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At 9:06pm on May 26, 2013, deon floyd said…
At 3:25am on May 21, 2012, Daniel Wayne said…
Actually I'm doing quite the contrary of good. I just had to break off with a woman recently who was using me financially and clearly didn't love me at all even though I loved her 
At 2:49am on May 18, 2012, Daniel Wayne said…
Just checking in on you. I am always here if you need to talk
At 2:02am on May 5, 2012, Daniel Wayne said…
Hey just checking in to see how you are doing. Hope well
At 6:39am on April 30, 2012, Mike lee said…
HiI am 31 years old menI visit ur profile viewed ur profile  pic u looking so cute i wish to chat with u Would u like to chat Plz reply me Thanks 
At 12:12am on April 21, 2012, Daniel Wayne said…
Hey I hope you are okay. I hope also that my advice and stories have helped you 
At 10:55pm on April 19, 2012, Daniel Wayne said…
I'll tell you what happens when people don't talk about their feelings
In December 2010 I was heading into finals for the classes I was taking. I was stressed frusterated lonely depressed abd then SHE comes around.
She tells me I am adoreable and she wants me. She tells me she wants me. She tells me she wants to get to know me. So I open up to her. One of the first things I tell her is I'm disabled ( I am.been it all my life.) suddenly she ignores me I never hear from her again. All of this bottled up emotion as  well as this recent rejection made me want to shoot myself. A concerned friend  called the local police department and I was taken to the psych wing of the local hospital.,.,that scared me shitless being there. Why don't people express their emotions? Because they feel that it is a dog eat dog world and emotions are seen as a weaknesst that can be exploited by others.
At 3:33am on April 19, 2012, Daniel Wayne said…
Not bad at fact I have a similar experience...when I was a teenager we lived next door to these extremely weird anti social people who literally only came out at night....seriously...only came out at night. My older sister my little brother and me used to call them the vampires haha...anyway they had these two yelping chiuauias that NEVER seemed to shut up especiallly at night. My entire family wanted to kill those dogs.,,in fact I remember Laura ( my sister) one night taking a bat and banging it on the fence screaming at the top of her lungs just to get those dogs to shut up...and you know what?? They just KEPT yapping
At 3:06am on April 19, 2012, Daniel Wayne said…
Imagine the cat singing the meow mix commercial
At 10:19pm on April 18, 2012, Daniel Wayne said…
The best way to Smile even if it's just a fake smile is to close your eyes and remember to yourself.... The most wonderful smell you've ever smelt. Your nose is being assaulted by this smell and it's going to your sense of feeling. After your sense of feeling its going to your sense of sight etc until it reaches your mouth and you can practically taste the smell...usually for me it's the smell of a cinnabon cinimon roll or a chocolate chip cookie.... One of the only things that makes me happy are baked goods


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