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short and sweet break up with his ass and keep the puppies you are better than that! and its obvious that he doesn't love you pack his shit up and have it waiting for him when he gets back if he has the key change the damn locks... yes its just that simple!
You need to realize you deserve more than what your getting
You seriously say you're in love?
Open you eyes there, sweetheart. Someone who loves you would NOT talk to you that way. You need to make it very clear to him that those kinds of things are not acceptable for any reason no matter the excuse he wants to use. That is complete horse shit, my dear. This may be harsh, but it's reality. If you continue to let him treat and talk to you that way, and stay in a relationship with someone like that, they only person you will have to blame is the one that stares back at you in the mirror.
I think it may be time to tell poor thing how many times you "faked" it, whether you did or not. if he can call you that, get him where it hurts, in the dick department.
I would... but then again i am a very mean and vindictive person at times... call me a fat ass, Im going for the kill.
Ok this is how i will say this...... You are far better than a man that treats you like that. no he may not hit you but mental abuse can easily be as bad as phsycal. And I know you feel that you love him but do you love him or is it that you have been with this man in you life so long u find the idea of not having him around heart breaking. He is in yours and your familys home. And if he loved u the way he must say he dose he would respect you and never degrade you. And the fact that he sneaks out on you is huge. The truth is that, That alone can be a sign of guilty contious and expecialy if all of the suden he has pesonality changes and starts freakin on you, alot of the time thats to make u feel worse and feel like you cant get better... BUT YOU CAN!!! So truly my advice tou you would be To lay it all out! tell him that you refuse to be treated like your less beacuse truly if he loves you he wouldnt be sneeking around behind your back calling you nasty names instead he should be bringing you with him and treating you like his pride and joy and be willing truly willing to pack his shit and get him out beacuse if you dont take it serious he wont and it dont matter if he dont have his own place dont let him guilt you into keeping him without proof he will change, he can stay werever he is sneeking off to... And yes losing him will hurt just as loosing any relationship dose but in the end you will feel better and will find somone to treat you the way you deserve to be treated intead of hurting you .....
I truly hope you realize nomatter what you look like or how you are there will always be somone to love you the way you deserve to be loved.....
I hope for the best
Sorry to say, but WAKE UP! He's showing his true colors. He's had you blinded this whole time but it looks like things are going to keep getting worse.
I know you love him but you need to get ASAP.
Imagine being such a loser that you have to use girls to get cigarettes! Buy your own!
Anyways dump him, you can do better.
Ugh honey, don't be one of those girls who would make excuses to stay with an asshole. You find out as you get older that you absolutely don't have to put up with shit from ANYONE, but especially from a man who claims he "loves" you. Take some time to really reflect on the relationship and what you want out of life in general. I'm sure it doesn't include being verbally and emotionally abused (and yes this IS abuse). If you put up with this now, it opens the door for him to abuse you in other ways, physical included. Please please know your worth beautiful girl and GET OUT NOW!
ps. Take those cute puppies with you!